10 Signs that your loved ones in Spirit are with you

1img. Feeling their presence around you.

Whether during the day or at night time and feel someone standing next to your bed in the early hours of the morning. When we sleep our brain waves reverse and thus it becomes easier to sense Spirit around us when we suddenly wake up. They receive the signal that we can sense them and they get rather excited by that and pop in to say hi. So if you’ve ever wondered why you feel someone standing next to your bed in the early am hours of the morning, it’s your loved one popping in to say hi. If this makes you afraid or scares you, you’re more than welcome to ask them to stop. Some people are extremely lucky and actually see their loved one in Spirit as if they were really standing right in front of them. Or a dark figure dark across the room in the corner of their eye.

2. You dream about them.

Dreaming of loved ones after they have died is very common. It is a very special way to stay connected. Some people believe that when we fall asleep, our souls are able to reunite with one another once more for a moment in time. You may physically see your loved one, hear them talking to you or a bit of both within your dreams. They also work with you on a subconscious level to help you with life’s ups and downs. Some people don’t know or forget about the last method but it’s actually the most common visit that we receive. It means you will not remember the dream or not see or hear them at all in your dream but wake up like you feel you have had a deep healing, awakening performed.

I encourage those who would like to have a visit from their loved one through dream-state to ask their loved one a question or to come in as you are drifting off to sleep. Please understand sometimes it can take a while so don’t put a time-limit on it. Feel free to keep a dream journal so when you wake up you can record everything and remember it and perhaps decipher most of it. If your spirited loved one ever comes through in a dream and gives you a warning, please pay special attention to the message.

3. They play with electricity.

What is Spirit? Well Spirit is a form of energy. And what is electricity? Bingo it’s also a source of energy and so it is rather easy for Spirit to manipulate the frequency and turn things on and off and even sometimes make electrical items blow up such as light bulbs. Some common things I hear about in my readings are computers, tvs, radios, lights that have turned themselves on and off by themselves or restarted on their own. I remember once waking up in the middle of the night when my bedroom TV turned on suddenly and then the volume starting turning itself all the way up. Nobody was touching the remote and it is an experience that had to be a visit from a loved one.

4. Feeling their energy touch you.

Many people have talked about feeling their loved one in Spirit around them and actually feeling like they have been physically touched. Examples are stroking of the hair, touching body parts such as hand, face, back, arms, and legs. You may feel like you are being embraced in a loving hug or a bit of a tingle on the face that can feel like a goodnight kiss. I always know when my Nanna Elsie in Spirit is with me as I can feel like someone’s hand has been placed firmly on my left shoulder blade. It feels like a heat pack on my back.

5. Hearing their voice again.

You may hear someone calling your name and turn around and nobody is there. Or you may hear a voice through clairaudience which is your own inner voice, the voice you hear when thinking to yourself and other internal dialogue within your mind. You may hear words, names and sometimes even random things that don’t seem to make sense at the time and then suddenly they make sense later. The most common thing people hear is music, either music playing when there is nothing around to play music or a certain song playing in their mind. If this happens repeatedly then pay special attention to the lyrics or if it is a special song that meant something very special between you and your loved one in Spirit. Sometimes I hear footsteps going up and down my stairs but there is nobody there, knocking on walls etc

6. Phone calls.

Because electricity is passed back and forth between two people on a phone, sometimes a loved one in Spirit will manipulate the phone lines and you may hear what sounds like static over the phone (obviously first check the reception) or also what sounds like a high pitched whispering. Some people have reported the phone calling with nobody on the other side or picking the phone up and hearing the aforementioned.

7. Symbolic Messages, numbers & Items!

Special symbols between yourself and your loved one will become apparent. For example Butterflies, Dragonflies, Lady Bugs fluttering around you in excitement to say hello. Our loved ones are able to merge their energy with any living object. Rainbows might be special, four leaf clovers, coins, feathers, shiny stones, crystals etc. Anything can be a Symbolic message or item so long as it is something very special between you both. For example my Nanna Elsie always gifted purses or hand bags with a coin inside for abundance so when I find small coins in the strangest of places I know they are a sign. Keep an eye out especially for Synchronicity which is mean things happen in 3’s or more. Special numbers may appear that relate to your loved one such as birth date, wedding anniversary date, passing date etc. These numbers and random letters can even be on number plates. Imagine if you had a mother in spirit named Barbara who died when she was 77 and then found a car over taking you with the number-plate “BARB77”

8. Moving items around your home.

Do objects move around your house? Does a special photograph keep falling off the wall or the shelf? Do books constantly fall at your feet? Some people have even said an item has been missing from the bench, only to check there a little bit later to find it in the same place it was when you put it there. Some items go mysteriously missing and you never find them again, or even more special when they turn up on special dates such as your loved ones birthday or wedding anniversary, date of their passing. Clocks may fall off the wall or suddenly stop working.

9. Smell / Clairalience

Do you smell cigarette smoke? Alcohol? Perhaps your loved ones favourite after shave, deodorant, signature scent or perfume? Suddenly out of nowhere this fragrance will just manifest itself. It is a big sign that your loved one in Spirit is with you. This goes further and goes on to things they may have baked in the kitchen such as fresh bread, cakes, and apple pies. Some of our loved ones just have a specific scent that we can identify them from, like the scent of their clothes. Sometimes they are extra cheeky and you could be smelling their smelly work boots and socks!

10. Temperature Changes

sometimes when a loved one comes to visit us, suddenly we may feel very cold and get Goosebumps all over our arms or our whole body. To me, Goosebumps are clarification that I am connecting to Spirit. Your hands or feet may suddenly go Icy cold. You may feel that you need an extra blanket. And this could be on a hot day or night! Sometimes the opposite occurs. We may suddenly sweat, or feel hot or over-heated.

So there you have it! 10 amazing signs that our loved ones in Spirit will always try to communicate to us. As time goes by the signs become less and less otherwise we constantly go searching for them and asking for messages and we forget to continue living our lives and making our own choices and decisions without their help. It is hard to feel loved ones when we are greatly stressed, depressed, busy or deep in grief. All of these emotions are of a low vibration and Spirit is a high vibrational frequency. Which means many people going through the above do not feel their loved ones with them and may start freaking out. Please don’t. Calm down, take some deep breaths, do what you can to make the situation better and more manageable. Then relax, let it all go. Once relaxed raise your vibration by doing something that you love and enjoy and your vibrational frequency will be at a much higher and easier level to receive the signs and feel their presence.

Melissa Gibson